“we cannot choose where we come from but we can decide where we will go from there”. When we are born irrespective of good or bad stature or pleasing appearences; majority decide to live life on that basis. So for those who are born in the most pleasing manner tend to live life to the fullest ignorant of improving spiritually as well as achieving more in life. Instead they become less giving and for those that have lived a sour childhood for an instnace tend to life on that basis; poor family background. However my say is that most who have gone through a series of sourness during early days tend to have the brightest future of all and the giving nature is inhibited in them.